Play Nicely Reward ChartHow to use it
- Be specific about what earns a box, for example waiting for a turn with a toy.
- Even on a day with a squabble, making up can earn a box.
- Siblings can fill one chart together as a team.
Tips
- Praise kind actions out loud, right when you see them.
- Practise phrases like "thank you", "sorry" and "let's play together".
- Avoid comparing siblings. Praise each child's own boxes.
- Choose a reward everyone can enjoy together.
Praise phrases to try
- You let your little brother go first!
- Asking a friend to play was so kind.
- You understood how your friend felt.
- You shared so nicely!
- Saying sorry first took real courage.
Chart style that fits Start → Finish, 20 steps
